Shannon Fonoti

took several years to come to grips with my loss. In some ways you never can accept a loss like that. I just look on it that I’m glad to have survived cancer. What helped me get over the problem was discovering that Robin’s husband Leigh – my golf partner, was also left impotent by his colon operation. The two of us got a lot of stick about eating pussy for dinner from Jess’s husband Richard - until he was struck down with a mental health problem and lost his sex drive. We jokingly refer to ourselves – only after a few drinks at the club - as the Three Impotents. The wives never complained – at least not to us. We men felt very lucky to have married such stalwart women who could look beyond the sexual thing and see the relationships